Oh hey, blog.

Whoa, haven't done this in awhile. I've been in Florida for the past week. Let me tell you, I've never been happier. I FINALLY got to get away from all the fake people in Rome. Wonder how many people that just pissed off? Oh well.
I love vacations!! No matter how you spend them, they are just awesome. Whether you'd rather be up in Tennesse in the Mountains or on the coast in Florida, it's oh so relaxing. Laying on the beach for about 5 hours everyday was heaven. Back in Rome, weather was awful, but down in Panama, you were waking up to sunshine EVERY day :)
The people you meet are amazing too! Literally, anyone I've ever met on vacation is just great. You usually end up never seeing them again, but it's always cool to just hang out with different people. They can't start crap about you either. Seeing as you usually meet people from different states, they can't really talk about you and ruin your life like 95.7% of the people I know and go to school with. Ah strangers, they're the best. Especially when they have candy ;) ;) ;) HA! Kidding..that's just creepy. Anyway, people, awesome. The end.
Well, I guess I'm done telling you what you already know.
PS: If you ask me how my trip went and what I did... hahha FALL BACK.

t-shirts! t-shirts! t-shirts!

Simple. If enough people want one, I'm going to order them, sell them (cheaply), so lemme know. I'll hit ya with a design later.

Give your eyes a workout.

So I made a special playlist for this occasion. I’m just so cool. I’m feeling a lot of pain too. I can’t figure out myself. Am I someone who wants to help people or not? Do I really care what people think or do I just think so? Am I always the sarcastic one? The one with no serious side? The one who doesn’t know how to be nice? I know in my heart I can be a nice person, but why am I always this way to people? It isn’t like its helping. I don’t think I even realize it. I’ve ruined relationships and friendships by being me. I don’t want to be that person. I don’t want to be myself. It’s too late in the game to immediately change. So what do I do?

Why do people get on my nerves all the time? Why do I take things offensively? Why can’t I open up to anyone? Why can’t I answer these questions? Why is it SO freaking hard for me to just be happy? It seems like everyone else has no problem with it. I just don’t know why it’s so hard for me. Why do I push away the people that love me the most? I think I am scared of commitment. I’m scared to grow close to someone. It’s not like anyone has ever just walked out of my life. I shouldn’t be having this problem, but I am. It concerns me.

I try to dedicate as much of my life to sports and school as possible. I used to blame it on my mom or dad and say they made me. However, sitting here just typing away, I wonder if it’s actually me trying to run away from reality. If I’m in the game, my mind is on that. Not on life itself. It seems so easy to just get caught up in the moment of the play. Why can’t I do that in real life? It’s not like it should be difficult. I’ve tried so many times to figure out what I am.

Why am I so cocky? Or better yet, why do I put myself out there like that? I’m not cocky. Okay, I’m good at softball. Pretty decent at softball. I got 1^st in shot put, 2^nd in high jump, and my 4x4 team got 3^rd in area. So yeah I am athletic and I have many accomplishments under my belt. I’m one of those stupid people that believe if I’m not the best, I’m awful. It really get’s under my skin when I’m not number 1. So many people have told me to just sit back and realize that I am good, but as much as I want to listen, I won’t allow myself that pleasure. I can’t control it. I don’t know what makes me just get that mind set up. Obviously I understand I’m good at what I do, but why can’t that just be it with me?

Why do I have a wall set up? Every single person in the universe has imperfections, but I don’t want anybody to see mine. Why is that? Do I care too much about my image? Do I think people won’t like me? Will it make me less of myself? What it comes down to in my mind is that I can’t allow anyone to see that I’m a human being. It makes absolutely no sense though! By keeping this wall up, everyone can see my imperfections. By the way I act, everyone knows. None of this makes any sense.

It’s not like I have a bad home life. I mean not really anyways. I have a mom and dad. They have conflicts every now and then. My mom gets down a lot, I guess sort of like me. My dad has rheumatoid arthritis. Basically he has all this pain that he can’t do anything about it. It just spreads. I never think about either. I really haven’t even taken it into consideration until just now. He suffers everyday to make sure we all have what we need. Gosh. I’m ignorant. Well, I have a brother too. I believe he is a very decent person. He has my back for sure. A lot of people pick on me at school for being his sister because he is crazy (Not in a bad way! He’s a dare devil kind of. He likes to try new things and buy cool things to work on.), but I don’t let it bother me. I laugh it off. I have a sister too. We are good friends. She is usually always there for me. It’s no secret she parties. My brother does too and I don’t see why it’s a problem for him. I hate it for her though. Well, not really for her, but for me. I catch a whole bunch of grief at school and with friends about how she lives her life. It’s not their business anymore than it is mine, but it just really upsets me. Obviously, I have a good family, I think. We all have our tweaks, but it’s what makes us, us. I love my family to death. They get on my nerves a lot and I know I get on theirs more than a lot, but I know they love me too. So, if I have a good family, why do I have such problems?

I don’t go to my family or friends for help on emotional problems or personal problems. I think I get embarrassed and don’t want to open to them about my life. As you can see, I keep a lot of things bottled up inside. I always have as far as I’m concerned. I know there are many people who would just love for me to sit down with them and just talk to them about what I am going through, but I just can’t do it. I haven’t realized why either. It bothers me. I can’t even be real with myself, so how could I be with somebody else?

I don’t have even the slightest clue on how to go about any of this. I don’t know why I am doing it either. It’s not like after I do this I’m going to feel any better. Hell, why do I even want you seeing this? I’ve been called the victim too many times; what am I doing, now, then? Being the victim? Basically. I don’t want your sympathy. You can keep that to yourself. If I wanted sympathy, I wouldn’t hold back all the time.

I haven’t even concluded anything of this either. I’ve been sitting in my bed, laptop in my lap, phone off, headphones in, listening to a new playlist to just make me think, and I have concluded nothing of myself.

So let’s see, who do I think I am? I think I’m Casey Padgett, a freshman in high school, someone who can’t handle the care that people supply her with, someone who covers up her self-consciousness with cockiness, someone who tries hard to make relationships work, but just can’t grasp hold of the right technique to do it, someone who doesn’t want to hear everyone else’s opinion of her, someone who cares what people think enough to change her entire self for people, someone who uses sarcasm as a way to communicate, someone who can stand up for herself, someone who gets her point across easily, someone who needs to just calm down, someone who isn’t happy with the way people actually want to listen, someone who doesn’t take advantage of what she has right now, someone who can’t commit, someone who tries hard to be the absolute best, someone who needs to realize it’s not always a competition, someone who has her priorities messed up, someone who wakes up in the morning and thinks “well, here we go again”, someone who wants to solve the world’s problems before attacking hers first, someone who can keep you laughing, someone who wants to have fun, but really doesn’t know how to be fun by being her ACTUAL self, someone who likes to write out her feelings, someone who is a good student with bad habits, someone who doesn’t take other people’s feelings into consideration, someone who would actually be a happier person, if she opened up to the ones closest to her, someone who is just not that close to God, and sadly she is content with that, someone who wants to travel, someone who just wants to get out and make a difference, someone who wants to runaway, someone who needs to runaway, someone who is ready to go off to college in a different town with different people to start all over, someone who beats herself up over what she can and cannot be, someone who makes insane attempts to reach her full potential, someone who thinks her best isn’t her best, that she could do better, someone who goes to music, someone who wishes she could write a book, someone who has many plenty of mistakes, someone who is to ignorant, someone who can be extremely obnoxious, someone who just sees the flaws and not the actually glory of herself, someone who hates being told who someone else thinks she is, someone who doesn’t understand herself at all.

Well, that’s who I think I am. I’d like to say there is a mixture of positive and negative things in there. There are many things that I wish I could change. You don’t need to point fingers and tell me what you think I should change. I used to think that maybe you don’t need to change. Well, in some cases, you don’t need to, but I have mixed feelings on me. I want to change, but I don’t know whether to or not. I’ve also noted in this passage that I’ve been lying to myself; how do I really know that I’m lying about who I am? What if I just think I’m lying because I want to believe I’m something else? I don’t understand it. I just wrote this to help me out. If you read it, wow, thanks, it means a lot to think someone spent their time reading something little ole me wrote. Anyway, maybe you know what I’m going through, maybe you don’t, but this may help you get notation as to what is going through this little crazy head of mine. 

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The 8 Irresistible Principles of FUN!

The 8 Irresistible Principles of Fun

First watch that. Yes, that. Right there. ^^

fun –noun 1. something that provides mirth or amusement

So either you finished watching, OR you just decided you didn't need to. Well, your choice completely, but it's actually pretty "eye-opening". 

Let's start with Principle 1:

• GET FOCUSED. Stop hiding who you really are.

I couldn't stress how many people I know, including myself, lie to their self about who they really are. I am a fine one to wake up one day and think "Hey, you know what..I'm going to go out today and the rest of my life and be a better person." Now, it may work for that day, but the rest of my life? Uh..no. It take some serious mental strength to be able to change yourself. Have you ever thought that maybe..just maybe you are just fine. By that I mean, maybe you don't NEED to change. It's very possible..

• GET FOCUSED. Start being intensely selfish.

Selfish..most people try not to be this way. Sometimes, though, you need to be. Coming home from a long day at school and basketball, I need to just lay down, reevaluate my performance of the day. I think about what really mattered, and what didn't. If I don't find it extremely important, I don't worry. You have to take time to figure out what it is that makes you happy, and indulge in it!

• BE CREATIVE. Stop following the rules. 

 Go wild. Not buck wild, pursue, but have fun! Don't break your back trying to follow something exactly! For example, don't color outside the lines. Who even said that? I don't know. Do you? Yeah, didn't think so. So don't stress it. Like stated, be creative. Don't let what somebody says stop you from being you and living to your absolute potential.

• BE CREATIVE. Stop scarring yourself.

This couldn't hit home more. Take adventures! Make risks! Not seriously dangerous ones, but have fun with. (Noticing the pattern here..fun?) Someone ask you on a rafting trip, what are you going to do? Are you going to go? Are you going to stay home and sulk inside where it's safer? C'mon guys. Don't be party poopers! Get out there. DO something. Do something dangerous ;)

•   USE YOUR WISDOM. Stop taking it all so damn seriously.

Simple as that. If it bothers you at that moment, it's more than likely going to bother you later. So why ponder it? Let it go through one ear and out the other. Life's a game. You've got to learn to play it. I also take things very very seriously, so this advice is aimed toward me too! No need to feel alone here :) The famous quote that so many people have "lived" by is a little something like "Don't take life seriously, no one gets out alive anyway." It's the truth. There's a time to be serious and a time to be relaxed, but if you ask me, 80% of your life should be relaxed. Now that's not exact, but don't let things get to you. Simple as that.

• USE YOUR WISDOM. Start getting rid of the crap.

Do it. Think about some good memories you've had in the past. Think about the future. Think about the present! Just don't think about the crap that's weighing you down! Get rid of it. Say you're having some drama at school or what have you, just be the bigger person. Accept faults, apologize, accept apologies, etc. Just GET OVER IT. The longer you drag it on, the less happiness in your life. Main point: Cut the clutter.

• TAKE ACTION. Stop being so busy!

This is my lesson here. I've seen some of the happiest people in the world everyday. You know what most of them do? Enjoy life. Day to day. They don't have a schedule book that has to plan everything out for them because they have room for flexibility. They have room to just sit down and breathe. Me, however, I'm not that person. I have to have something going on to be happy. Maybe you're like me. Some people must be busy to have fun..or vise-versa. Whatever person you are..just enjoy life.

• TAKE ACTION. Start something.

Do that English project that is due in a week. Why not? What's stopping you? Facebook? Myspace? Twitter? Hmm...news flash: those things are going to be there tomorrow..and the next day...and the next day...and so on. Just buckle down, get it done, and then, POOF. No more project for you. Procrastination. Something everyone has taken a part in. Don't sit there and think "Who is she? She don't know me! I never procrastinate!" Okay. Shut up. That's a lie. It's easy to lie to yourself, but it's just as easy to get what needs to be done, done. So..quit reading this and go finish whatever it is you kids do these days. ;)

Not going to lie to you. I'm sure half of the people, if any, who read this, don't really care and will forget this tomorrow. Hey, suite yourself. I'm just throwing out my personal information on this topic. After all, I'm only a freshman, what could I have possibly experienced?

BUT for those of you, who found that vid. helpful to your life, thank you for accepting a little insight from a few helpful people! :D